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Other organisations that can help

There are a number of other great organisations that offer specialist suppport and information services for children, young people and their whānau.​

If you haven't found what you are looking for on our website, you may find something useful here.

If you, or someone you know, is feeling suicidal please call 111.

For children

Free Children's Phone Lines to call so that you can talk to someone and get help and support

  • Kidsline - info and telephone counselling for children age 9 to 13 years old
  • Whatsup - counselling phone line for children and young people 5 - 18 years old, available 7 days a week between 1pm to 11pm, staffed by trained counsellors.
  • Need to talk? - free text or talk to a trained Counsellor - dial 1737

Bullying

  • No Bully - info for kids and parents about bullying

If violence happens

  • What’s OK at homeWOAH is an organisation called Domestic Violence Resource Centre (DVRCV) that make websites, videos, apps, brochures, posters and lots more to help people understand what family violence is.
  • Are you OK?
  • Women’s Refuge

For children facing their own health or disability challenges

When a parent has an illness

For parents

General Parenting Support

For Dads

For Mums

Shared Parenting, or Co-Parenting

Parenting a Child with Special Needs

Supporting Anxious Children

Anxiety and Anxiety Disorders in Children - information for parents

When Children Have Attachment Issues

Attachment Disorders & Reactive Attachment Disorder (USA)

General family support links

Building Resilience

RESILIENT (NZ) helps individuals, families, organisations and communities prepare for and get through critical incidents. Provides peer support, crisis response teams, training workshops and leadership training. Contact them on (06) 353 8383.

Community Resilience (NZ) Enhancing the resilience of urban communities to natural hazard events.

Trauma Support Websites

Supporting Children and Teens

Tips for Supporting Teenagers after a Traumatic Event

Understanding Child Traumatic Stress – How psychological trauma in children differs from trauma in adults. (The National Child Traumatic Stress Network)

The Australian Child & Adolescent Trauma, Loss & Grief Network - helpful articles and resources relating to supporting children and teens after disasters or trauma

PTSD in Children and Adolescents (USA Dept of Veteran Affairs)

About Traumatic Stress and Managing It

Understanding and Dealing with PTSD

Healing Emotional and Psychological Trauma - Symptoms, Treatment, and Recovery

For Professionals and Support Workers

The USA National Child Traumatic Stress network, offers excellent free online learning courses

The effects of earthquakes on families and children

A Brief Description of EMDR Therapy – (EMDR Network)

Please note Skylight does not provide EDMR Therapy

Trauma, Attachment, and Stress Disorders: Rethinking and Reworking Developmental Issues – brain-based view of emotional trauma and its impact on children. (Trauma Resources)

Bereavement Support

When someone special has died

Kids Said - (USA) - a safe place for bereaved children to help each other as they grieve

Just for Us - If you know someone is in prison PILLARS NZ

See also bereavement links for children and young people.

General Bereavement

Help Guide - coping with grief and loss, support for bereavement

Bereavement by Age Group (children and teens) (NZ)

Victim Support NZ - provides info and support to NZ victims of crime

Winston's Wish - supporting bereaved children, teens and their families (UK)

Bereaved Families of Ontario - support for bereaved families (Canada)

Dougy Centr e - grief support for children, teens and parents (USA)

HELLO GRIEF! - excellent US grief support site

When Grief Gets Complicated or Leads to Depression

Complicated Grief - Mayo Clinic (USA)

Explaining Death to Children

My Grandad Plants People!- a simple and very engaging guide for grown-ups when children ask tricky questions about death by Chris Earl of P&SW Co-operative Society (UK)

When a Parent Has Died

Helping a Child When a Parent Has Died (NZ)

When a Baby or Child has Died

What to do when your child dies and experiencing grief after your child dies - information for parents and carers (NZ)

Miscarriage Support - a team of volunteers of various ages who have all experienced the loss of babies and would like to provide emotional support and information for women and their families during and after miscarriage and subsequent pregnancies.

Sands NZ Pregnancy, baby and infant loss support. Sands is a network of parent-run, non-profit groups supporting families who have experienced the death of a baby. We have over 25 groups/contact people around the country.

SIDS NZ is a national organisation of parents, families and friends of babies or young children who have died suddenly and/or unexpectedly of any cause, including SIDS.

Twin Loss NZ- A New Zealand wide group for those who have lost one or more or all their twins, triplets or more from early pregnancy to childhood and beyond, including the loss of a twin sibling in adulthood.

SIDS and Kids Western Australia - for parents experiencing miscarriage, stillbirth, neonatal and SIDs death (Australia)

The Lost Ones - after the loss of a child through Miscarriage, Stillbirth or SIDS. Click on 'forum' for the discussion pages.

Helping Siblings after the Death of a Brother or Sister

Helping your child after their sister, brother or cousin has died: information for parents or carers

After a Suicide

Survivors of Suicide - for those impacted by the suicide of someone close

Suicide Awareness Voices of Education (SAVE)- suicide prevention info and giving a voice to suicide survivors

After a Drowning Death

Drowning Support Network for those bereaved by a drowning or aquatic accident of any kind. UK site in origin but open to all. Scroll down for all the various articles, including grief after a drowning.

Depression and Anxiety

Disability and Illness Support

General

Helpful Medical Information for Kids and Adults

Parenting Through Serious Illness

Parenting a Child with a Disability or Serious Health Condition

Cancer

Mental Health

Addictions

A lcohol Drug Association New Zealand (ADANZ) - Alcohol Drug Helpline

See also website links for children and youth

Support for other Specific Illness, Condition or Disability

Sexual Abuse, Assault, Violence

Sexual Abuse HELP Wellington - Wellington Sexual Abuse HELP works with survivors of sexual abuse and their whānau – of any age, gender or ethnicity.

Rape Prevention Education - Whakatu Mauri (Formerly Auckland Rape Crisis)
Provides information around crisis and sexual abuse issues. Their website can link you to Rape Crisis Centres around NZ that can provide free support, counselling (both phone and face-to-face), practical assistance, advocacy, and resources for women and children who are survivors of rape and/or sexual abuse. They also provide education and training for young people, parent groups and the wider community, especially in the Auckland region on preventing sexual violence and dealing with disclosures of abuse.

Sex’N’Respect (also by Rape prevention Education)
This is for young people and it talks about how to heal after experiencing abuse, how to help a friend, how to step up and be an active bystander if you see something dodgy, consent, what to do if you are being sexually harmful and much more

Prepair - a New Zealand based organisation that focuses on supporting NZ Women to navigate through relationships, emotional abuse, and self-love.

Resources Available at Skylight

Skylight is here to help you through difficult times. We can assist you in a variety of ways with information appropriate for your situation. You are welcome to visit us and receive free information and a support pack from our resource centre and borrow books from the specialist library. We also facilitate Professional Development training and offer Counselling support services for children, young people, family/whānau and individuals who are experiencing tough times.

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